Can she REALLY be that lazy?

Unfortunately, yes.  And not just in my case.  I have read all over the place about crazy and LAZY ex-wives and what they do.  My Miss Scarlett actually demands that I, the step-mom, who has absolutely ZERO obligation to help her do anything to take care of her kids, should shuttle all their crap back and forth between the two households. Although Miss Scarlett drives right by OUR house when she decides it is a day she will work, she can't be bothered to stop and grab her kids' gear off the porch. Hello LAZY!  It's 15 minutes out of my way when I do it and they ARE NOT MY KIDS.  We do have an agreement between the three of us that whomever picks the children up from school is responsible for getting their books and soccer bags.  She can't manage her HALF??  It's only half!!!

Mind you, this includes her children's SCHOOL BOOKS.  She's all Disneyland, why bother with school work?  She seems to make it home to take the kids to eat out, AGAIN, but can't get their school books???  I forget sometimes how important meals are to her.  God forbid she ever cooks one.  Maybe if she keeps rocking those sexy shape ups, she can keep eating like that without actually getting bigger. 

Then, same day, she yells at us that we are horrible for her kids and don't do anything. (other than pay for EVERYTHING, feed them healthy and nutritious home cooked meals, take them to the doctor when they need to go, make sure they get to all their activities, etc)  These kids have been playing soccer for at least 7 years.  I was once asked if Miss Scarlett was in their lives at all or dead.  "No, she lives down the street from THIS soccer field" was my response.  I know and her kids know that she barely wants to go watch them play on her weekends let alone ours.  More than once she has stated she doesn't want to spend her life on a soccer field.  Her kids do though, but hey, lazy is lazy. 

If it isn't about her, it doesn't matter.  So not only lazy, but uncaring?  Sad combo for those kids.