Welcome to Next Wife-dom

There are several types of Next Wives...seconds, thirds, those married to divorcees, those married to widows.  Some of us are step-moms, step grand moms, you name it. Next Wives are literally everywhere.

From what I've noticed, it doesn't matter who we really are, how hard we try, how nice we are or how well we treat those around us, we are a reminder that some marriages do not last and men move on with their lives.  We are a threat to first wives.  Even those in secure, happy marriages.  We are thought to be a home wrecker without ever being asked, "When did you two meet?"  Note, HE isn't a bastard to those women if you are a home wrecker, YOU are just a whore.  Sounds lovely doesn't it?  Feels as good as it sounds.

This is all before we even get to whether or not kids are involved - Good God help us ALL on that front.

I have to say, if you have a choice, marry a widower or a man whose ex has disappeared and truly does NOT want him back.  They always say they don't want him back, but almost ALL of them do as soon as he finds someone else.

I think my favorite is when the men say "I had no idea she was so crazy!"

Surprise.....SHE IS